Pictured here, my mother, Carol, at age 17. She has black hair and blue eyes, and in my mind, is a combo of Keely Smith and Elizabeth Taylor. The haircut she gave herself...remnants of Gina Lollobrigida. She was different, which in Georgia (as well I learned) can mean falling off the clear path to perfection. Not achieving a society's assumptions for you—did I mention she was a coloratura soprano?—can be deadly.
In Carol's case, she lost her gorgeous voice at college, which caused financial aid to dry up, so she had to turn to other directions.
If any of you have any inclination to say some prayers or send good thoughts tomorrow morning (Friday, October 13), my wonderful mother is having some difficult surgery on her neck/spine. They are repairing a hack job done a few years ago by a surgeon in Atlanta—the damage was so vast that recent X-rays caught it in time so she wouldn't be paralyzed for the rest of her life.
The surgery then was so difficult that they pretty much had her spine out of her body for eight hours. She, a Druid if anything, was in the worst pain imaginable, and clinging to life. Not a religious person, she saw her two youngest daughters standing on either side of her bed, holding hands and sending love and prayers her way. Once again—not a religious person, nor one to hallucinate, she saw a gold circle of light joining them and surrounding her.
She pulled through. She credits prayer.
I did some research yesterday, and am tackling Michael's questions in three parts. The first post, today, will address what I know about cheesemaking.